4 Signs Your Partner isn't in Love with You Anymore

Jul 04, 2022


Relationships require mutual consent to be established, but separation is a personal decision. Since when did our relationship start to drift apart? People who would once travel across town to see you may end up not even wanting to say goodbye face to face. Perhaps you often wonder why it turned out this way? How did it get to be like this? But you have to admit that there are signs that a person's feelings have changed, but you just don't want to find out that the person has changed. So, dear friends, if you don't want to get stuck in relationship misery, read this article carefully and be brave enough to face the truth about your relationship.


1. He takes longer and longer to respond to your messages


When you first established your relationship, he was always very enthusiastic about you, at that time he wanted to see you every second and thought you were the most wonderful girl in the world. But after a month, he started to get busy and contact started to go from three times a day to once every three days, and over time, it might be hard to see each other for a week. He told me the reason he was so busy then was because he was so busy with work that replying to a message was a unit of measurement from a few minutes to a few days.


2. Comparing you to others constantly


"xxx's body is really hot, you seem to have gained weight again."


"The clothes you're wearing don't suit you, xxx looks great in them, you could learn from her." 


Have these conversations ever occurred in your love life, comparing you to other girls and taunting you all the time? But everyone is unique, and isn't that what you like about being unique? There are many beautiful women in the world, but he is not impressed by any of them, except for this seemingly ordinary girl who makes him feel so much light.


The movie "Flipped" had the line, "Some of us get dipped in flat, some in satin, some in gloss. But every once in a while you find someone who's iridescent, and when you do, nothing will ever compare". If you love someone, you will naturally ignore other people and only have eyes for the person you love, not to mention comparing your love with others. If your boyfriend is always comparing you to others, it means that you are no longer special or even up to his ideal type. 


So when your boyfriend is always comparing you with other girls and hitting you numerous times, it means that the man has become less in love with you.


3. He only blames you when you make mistakes


Love is about two people accommodating each other and making progress together. To err is human. Without a heart that embraces mistakes in a relationship, the relationship will hardly last. Whenever you make a mistake, no matter how big or small, your boyfriend will blame you and completely disregard your feelings, so you can actually see that you are not that important in his heart.


4. Stop talking about everything


One of the most obvious signs that he doesn't love you is that he no longer wants to share his daily life with you. He used to be able to tell you about his bad day at work, the stray dog he saw in the street, the rain he heard, and so on. But when he doesn't love you, the communication between you slowly starts to become less and less, and even when you want to share something you like with him so much, he will pretend not to hear it.


In conclusion

The thing about love is that it is never obvious and realistic.


People who love you will always think of giving you the best love, will let you truly feel his heart, do not love you will also show his true heart, there will be a variety of signals out.


So, when there are these signals, you should put them down before it's too late and stop in time, perhaps the best way for yourself.